I want to post happy, funny, or even delirious things. But I’ve only been sad lately.
Hang mistletoe but instead of kissing you have to FIGHT whoever else is under it
Got everything done but still feel like I failed. What the disquietingly specific German word for that?
Hello?
Reviving this blog with all of my college depressions reblogs intact (for now). I don’t know what I want to do with it. I just felt like there were too many eyes-of-consequence on my other social media accounts.
I missed screaming into the void.
Anonymous asked: Do your or your followers know of any canon queer rep (that has tons of buildup and has a happy ending). I'm just so sick of the baiting and hurt I feel, and today was the straw that broke the camel's back. I'm done with SPN now tbh, its hurt me too much, and I want to find something like Destiel that is canon and isn't constantly bashed on by the show.
livebloggingmydescentintomadness:
I’m sorry, sweetheart, I know how much it hurts. I’m not a big TV buff, but I know that Yuri on Ice, Supergirl, and Sense8 have explicitly queer romances, and Hannibal went 95% canon at the end, though that’s not exactly a happy fluffy show. I’m sure there are more, but I’m drawing a blank at the moment because I don’t watch very many shows.
- if u dont wanna read all of this the ones that i could recommend most highly to someone who liked supernatural until the queerbaiting got to be too much are shadowhunters and carmilla (which is a webseries, not tv)
- skam season 3 is a great mlm love story! it does deal with some heavier issues, like internalized homophobia and mental illness, but in a thoughtful, respectful way. you definitely don’t need to have seen the first two seasons either! it’s a norwegian show, but you can find it with subs.
- eyewitness is another young mlm romance, although that one is SUPER heavy- but i promise there’s a happy ending!!
- shadowhunters hits quite a lot of the buttons that made me love supernatural (campy modern-day fantasy full of beautiful people) but actually has a canon interracial gay romance with the MOST SATISFYING BIG KISS MOMENT.
- lost girl- have not seen this one, but it’s first on my list as the protag is a bi/pan lady who does have a romantic storyline with another woman, but again i don’t know too much else besides that it has cool vampire mythology.
- legend of korra is a cartoon, but a cartoon with a slow burn queer lady romance and fantastic writing. and cool fight scenes.
- carmilla is a webseries published on youtube that centers on a nancy-drew-esque college girl and her annoying but also sexy vampire roommate and it’s just. i love it. also very campy and fun, plus 90% of the important characters (and all the mains) are girls, which is a nice palate cleanser after supernatural.
- crazy ex-girlfriend is a wild, wild ride with an objectively terrible title and a very cute mlm romance (with an explicitly bi dude, which i love) with very satisfying buildup. it’s not the main storyline of the show, unfortunately, and starts i think in the second season, but it’s nice and fluffy.
- in the flesh is a zombie show with fucking fantastic writing, and the main romance is between two guys, but it’s quite quite dark and the ending isn’t, like, disney-esque.
- and if you want a quick happy fix, the way he looks is a brazilian teen movie centered on a wonderfully poignant romance between two boys and it’s one of my faves of all time.
- also, here’s a link to a frankly incredible set of masterposts of queer media. it can be a little intimidating to wade through, but it’s a fantastic resource.
Reminder: Don’t take photos of your vote
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